the 3 engines that do the ‘selling'

before you ever show up

Sunday I dropped some hard to ignore truth:

There’s a reason why some biz owners have empty ‘funnels’ and ghost town inboxes…

While others wake up to qualified prospects asking, “How do we work with you?”

The secret?

They’ve built 3 silent engines doing the work for them before the pitch, the proposal, or the calendar invite.

Here’s the breakdown:

1 — The Attention Engine

You don’t need a big audience.
You need the right attention from the right people… at the right moment.

Most throw content into the void and pray someone ‘important’ sees it.

That’s like whispering at a concert.

The Attention Engine makes sure founders and executives notice you without posting 15 times a week.

It’s not about mass visibility. 

It’s about being visible to the right ideal clients… in the right way.

A powerful Attention Engine has these 3 essential parts:

  • A simple tech tool that finds and guides your ideal clients directly to your profile 24.7.365.

  • A profile bio message that makes your ideal client say “Finally… someone who gets it.”

  • Simple social posts that feel personal.

Done right, you become known to the right people (who learn to value your expertise.)

This attention is not intrusive.
Not fake.
Not gimmicky.
And is 100% captivating to the right premium clients.

2 — The Trust Engine

This is where most fall flat.

They focus on content, not connection.

They post. They write. They email.
But they struggle to actually build real trust.

Because trust isn’t built by volume.
It’s built by consistency + clarity + credibility.

And in today’s instant disruption market?

Potential clients are not asking “Who are you?”

They’re asking:
“Why should I listen to you today, trust you next week, and pay you this month?”

The Trust Engine answers that with emails that show experience, methods, and care.

You actually have to care about the success of your potential and current clients for this to work.

It earns you quiet credibility that compounds.

So when you send an email, it doesn’t feel like a stranger wheelin-n-dealin’ in their inbox.

It feels like a trustworthy friend and guide showing up at the right time.

3 — The Offer Engine

Most offers sound like a to-do list.
“12 sessions. 55 Worksheets. 100 Templates. 30+ hours of videos.”

That’s a recipe for ghosting.

Your Offer Engine should ignite one reaction:
“I want that.”

It needs to show a shift, not a service.
A before (the struggle) and after (the relief).


While you can’t guarantee specific results, you can promise a path of progress that can remarkably change their lives— for the better.

When built right, your offer doesn’t need a pitch.
It speaks for itself.

Your emails, your posts, your follow-ups—they all become invitations instead of interruptions.


And once you’ve got all 3 engines running?

  • The Attention Engine brings them in.

  • The Trust Engine helps them lean in.

  • The Offer Engine helps them say “I want that.”

You won’t need to push.
You’ll just guide.

Now you’re probably thinking:

“Sounds great, but what if my prospects and subscribers are still sitting on the fence? They’re interested... but not moving.”

Great question.

Because Thursday evening, I’ll show you something counterintuitive:

Why trying to persuade them is the very thing keeping them from joining your program…

And the subtle shift that moves premium ideal clients from hesitation to action—without pressure or hype.

Most never figure this part out.

But the ones who do?

They never have to “chase” again.


Talk soon.
—Sonia

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